Chapter 210: Thrilling and Heartfelt Confession
Song Yihan was very scared. She was afraid that Zhao Yuxi would expose her true thoughts, that Zhao Yuxi would bring up the gap between ancient people and contemporary people again, and that Zhao Yuxi would emphasize the inequality between their identities and statuses again. Once Zhao Yuxi said something like this, even if Gu Tingzhou stood by her and spoke for her, she would not have the upper hand.
“When two people are together, the most important things are not the visible things, but the invisible things, such as companionship, sharing, trust, and reliance.”
Song Yihan relaxed a little. No matter what Zhao Yuxi's intentions were or what she wanted to achieve, as long as she said "the most important thing is not what can be seen", other words would be relatively easy to accept, and other things would be relatively easy to conceal because "they cannot be seen".
Gu Tingzhou was a little worried. It was not the first time he had heard these four words. Not long ago, Zhao Yuxi used these four words when she talked to him about the difference between liking and loving. At that time, he did not understand what was so special about these four words, and he did not understand it now. He had no idea what Zhao Yuxi would say next.
"It is easy to accompany someone, but it does not mean that two people appear in the same space at the same time. The companionship between friends is obviously different from the companionship between lovers. For example, when encountering certain difficulties or in certain special circumstances, friends cannot provide companionship. Only when the loved one is around, the companionship at this time is meaningful and effective."
When Jiang Mengxi heard these words, she knew that Zhao Yuxi had taken the initiative. She had heard these words before. Teacher Zhao had explained these theories in detail when analyzing countermeasures with her. Teacher Zhao had come up with these impeccable theories. Did this mean that in this duel, she would no longer be so passive? No longer at a disadvantage? She finally didn't have to cry anymore?
Jiang Mengxi was genuinely happy for Teacher Zhao, and she was looking forward to Teacher Zhao turning defeat into victory.
Gu Tingzhou was thinking about what "special circumstances" and "certain difficulties" meant. Would it be bad if the two deans heard what she said?
Mu Zhengguang and Xu Ying were also thinking about "special circumstances" and "certain difficulties".
Mu Zhengguang thought about it and didn’t dare to think about it anymore.
Xu Ying began to wonder as she thought about it. She smiled and looked at her classmate's profile. The more she looked, the more she liked him. But the doubts in her heart did not subside: Can the little classmate understand what "special circumstances" mean? He should be able to understand. Sometimes he kept staring at me, and in his eyes, there was a yearning and curiosity for the opposite sex.
Song Yihan couldn't understand why Zhao Yuxi said this: You were using "drunk and promiscuous" to attack me before, but after a few minutes, you started talking about "special circumstances"? Aren't the "special circumstances" you are talking about the situation when a boy and a girl are alone? Except for the person you love, no one else can occupy that time and space.
"Now that we have discussed the first point, let's talk about the second point, sharing. Sharing is a little bit like companionship. Some things can only be shared with a partner, and no one else can share them, including family, friends, and the person you like. For example, after two people are together, the other person's brothers and sisters are also your brothers and sisters, and the other person's parents are also your parents. You can understand and share the other person's property and family, secrets, and happiness." When Song Yihan heard the word property, she felt pressured again: If you are talking about sharing, then talk about sharing. Why are you talking about sharing property? What would Gu Tingzhou think if he heard it?
Gu Tingzhou didn't think about property. He was thinking about his family. He knew his own family well. They were not easy to get along with. He would give them a regular amount of money every month. As for the rest of the time, it would be best not to see them. Even if he did, it would be only occasionally to avoid conflicts.
What kind of people are Song Yihan's family members? She seemed to have told me before. She has a younger brother, but I don't remember much about the rest. Even if I remember clearly, after so many years, they may not be the same as before.
When two people are together, the other person's family is also their own family, so they have to deal with the affairs of two families. However, I haven't finished dealing with my own family affairs yet. If her family is also particularly difficult to deal with... If she can get rid of the control of her family, like me, then it's fine. What if she can't get rid of it?
Mu Zhengguang remembered that when his classmate celebrated his birthday a few days ago, he told his classmate's mother, "We will be back soon." Of course, his classmate's family is his family. He has met his classmate's parents, grandparents, brothers and sisters. His family is also his classmate's family, and his classmate has also met these people. In the future, if she wants to see him, then she will see him. If she doesn't want to see him, then she won't see him.
"The third one is trust. Friends don't need to tell each other their entire past. The attraction between friends may be due to the same interests and hobbies, and the same strengths. As long as there are good points and they are not hostile, they can become friends. However, the trust required to become a partner is not so simple. Both parties have experienced a lot of pasts before they met, some of which are unforgettable and some of which are too painful to look back on. If these things are hidden in the heart and kept as secrets without telling each other, do you think there is still real trust between the two parties?"
The five fingers of Mu Zhengguang's right hand opened and then closed.
Xu Ying saw this scene and sighed in her heart: Secrets? There are only a few secrets left between you and me, and this little secret does not affect our trust and understanding of each other. You reacted so strongly to what Zhao Yuxi said... Sigh... After the dinner, I will tell you some of my secrets. I have more secrets than you, and my secrets are hidden deeper. My secrets can be called "secrets" more, so I should be the first to speak.
"Unforgettable", "unbearable to look back", "hidden in the heart", "secret", "don't tell the other party", Song Yihan was terrified and felt like sitting on pins and needles: Fortunately, there is only one last sentence left. After hearing the last sentence, it's time to eat. Even if you have something to say, you have to finish eating first. After all, the dishes are all served. As long as I put the meat slices in the pot, I don't believe you will continue talking!
"The last one is reliance. Reliance is mutual. The truly important reliance is not the reliance on material conditions, but the reliance on two hearts. The three views, thinking, and cognition of two people determine whether a person can be relied on. If a person's three views are problematic, if a person's thinking is particularly naive, if a person's cognition is very narrow, would you dare to rely on such a person? Will you be happy with such a person?
"In addition to world views, thinking, and cognition, there is another thing that is particularly important, that is, ability. The ability to solve problems, the ability to handle things, the ability to treat people, the ability to control emotions, and so on. From all aspects of life to every detail, everything needs to be considered. The reliance between friends is temporary and consists of many fragments, but the reliance between partners exists all the time. As long as the other person is alive, you want to rely on him all the time, so you must see clearly whether the other person is someone you can rely on.
"Finally, let me tell you about another situation. Even though the other person is alive, he has betrayed you. This situation is also terrible. No matter how capable the person who betrays you is, he can never be your support."
(End of this chapter)