Chapter 4944 Detour
They can only remind their children again and again: Don’t talk about mom and dad’s affairs outside.
Children must remember this.
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As long as no one else knows about it, they can take their time to deal with this problem of the child.
Changes in cognition are always a long process.
It was the first time they knew their child was so stubborn.
I didn't even believe what they said.
Maybe it’s because the child really wants his parents to stay with him…
When they thought of this reason, the two old people felt sad and soft in their hearts.
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But they believe that time will heal everything.
The child will grow up slowly.
Children will figure out and understand many things on their own without being told by others.
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only……
This length of time was somewhat beyond the two old people's expectations.
The child got into conflict with others because of this issue.
They were convinced.
They couldn't continue to neglect their children like this.
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"We have told you many times..."
Grandma Yu looked at the child and said, "Your father and mother are no longer here."
"No more."
"You kid..."
Grandma Yu's voice was faintly choked with sobs, "Why can't you listen?"
Why are you so stubborn?
It's like being possessed by a demon.
She was angry and helpless.
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"Mom and Dad are here!"
The child's unchanged answer made it difficult for the two old people to even feel angry.
The answer I had expected...
They asked the question countless times, and heard the answer countless times...
What other emotional fluctuations could they have?
They were almost numb.
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"Yu Lele."
Grandpa Yu’s face darkened.
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The doctor shook his head slightly at Grandpa Yu.
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Grandpa Yu pursed his lips.
I swallowed what I was about to say.
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The doctor looked at the child, "Le Le."
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When the child found out that it was the doctor who gave him candy and chocolate who spoke the truth to him, his resistance eased a little.
In fact, the tone of the two old people's voices was not very intense just now, but just like the two old people were numb to the child's answer...
The child was very annoyed with the two old people telling him the same thing over and over again.
So whenever they start talking, the children's emotions immediately rise.
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"Auntie Doctor."
The child felt aggrieved, "Grandpa and grandma are so annoying."
"They keep saying that mom and dad are gone..."
"Mom and Dad are obviously here."
"Mom and Dad are always with me."
"Why is he gone?"
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"Because grandpa and grandma didn't see mom and dad."
The doctor did not repeat to the child the car accident that the child’s grandparents must have told him countless times.
She followed the child's words.
"Can you ask Mom and Dad to come out and meet them?"
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The child was stunned.
The two old men were also stunned.
them……
Didn’t expect this….
Yes.
Since the child said that mom and dad are...
Then let the children call their parents out and let them see.
They have been persistently denying the existence of their parents to their children...
of course.
This is correct.
This is indeed their purpose.
But for children, their words were a bit harsh.
They should take a roundabout approach.
Let your children realize...
There is something wrong with his cognition...
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As long as children have no way of getting their parents to appear in front of them, isn't the so-called truth obvious?
They don’t need to force their children to accept or persuade them with earnest words and dry mouth…
Children will break their own cognition...
Will modify your perception.
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They were too anxious.
Seems like a lot of effort...
In fact, a lot of useless work was done.
Even their actions had negative effects.
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Now when children hear them talking about their parents and car accidents...
They will show resistance and be unwilling to listen to them...
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The two old men looked at the doctor with some emotion.
As expected, he is a doctor.
A professional is a professional.
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"...Grandpa and grandma can't see mom and dad?"
The child tilted his head.
He looked at the two old men and then at the doctor.
A look of confusion and doubt.
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"Yes."
The doctor smiled.
“Grandpa and grandma can’t see.”
"So I don't believe what you say."
"You let your grandparents see..."
"Grandpa and grandma will believe what you say."
"This way, grandpa and grandma won't tell you that mom and dad have left..."
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really?
The child opened his eyes wide.
He likes his grandparents very much.
But he really hates his grandparents telling him again and again that his parents are gone...
Not only grandparents, he hates anyone telling him that his parents are gone.
He doesn't understand...
His parents are obviously here, why are there so many people...
Even his grandparents said with certainty that his parents were gone?
he is very angry.
He was really angry when people said that.
Even the same cannot be said of his grandparents whom he loves very much.
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"real."
The doctor smiled and nodded.
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The child's eyes suddenly lit up.
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"Can you let your parents appear in front of your grandparents now?"
the doctor asked.
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The light in the child's eyes froze.
He shook his head.
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"why?"
The doctor had a calm demeanor, with a hint of doubt on his face.
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"Mom and Dad are at work."
The child said as a matter of course.
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An unexpected yet reasonable answer.
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The doctor and the two old men were stunned.
Because it makes so much sense...
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The two old people looked at the child with complicated eyes.
Today is not a holiday.
They took into account that fewer people would come to the hospital on weekdays, and the chance of meeting someone familiar would be greatly reduced.
Although they had chosen a hospital as far away from their home as possible.
But don’t be afraid of the worst, just be afraid of ten thousand.
It's always a good idea to be thoughtful.
They asked for leave from the teacher for their child and brought the child to see a psychologist.
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The doctor didn't know what to say for a few seconds.
at work……
This child is so young, but his logic is very rigorous.
The doctor smiled slightly.
"Mom and Dad are at work."
"Does Lele know where they work?"
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"do not know."
The child simply shook his head.
“I haven’t been to where my parents work.”
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The child answered so naturally.
The two old people almost believed that the child’s parents really worked there…
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"That……"
The doctor raised his lips slightly, "Le Le, do you know your parents' phone numbers?"
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"know."
The child nodded quickly.
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"Grandpa and grandma want to tell mom and dad something."
The doctor smiled.
"Could you please call Mom and Dad?"
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Call Mom and Dad...
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