Chapter 4926 The Second Nan Nan
The old lady said goodbye to Grandma Li.
The smile on the old lady's face slowly disappeared as she turned around.
She thought about Nan Nan again.
……
This incident left a deep impression on her.
Because from Nan Nan...
She vaguely saw the shadow of her grandson.
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As the days passed, my grandson's condition did not improve at all...
She still couldn't make up her mind to take her child to see a psychiatrist.
She is scared...
Lele became the second Nan Nan.
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She repeatedly told her child not to mention his parents in other people's homes.
I'm just worried that my child will say something strange and make others suspicious.
Although she has reasons, just like what she told the teacher today...
The child has not yet accepted the departure of his parents...
Basically everyone will understand and feel sorry for the child's experience.
But this is not a long-term solution.
The teacher also said...
It's been two years...
The child has not yet recovered from the accident that year...
They should take action.
They should take their children to see a psychologist.
……
but……
She was really scared...
She didn't want others to know about her child's abnormality.
I am afraid that my child will live under prejudiced eyes from now on.
Afraid that children will be excluded, alienated, and isolated...
This will make children more and more dependent on the fantasy that their parents are still around.
She believes that as long as they are with their children and their friends are with them...
One day, the child will accept the fact.
Just as time goes by day by day...
She wasn't sure anymore.
……
Will that day really come?
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"Do you think we should take the child to see a psychiatrist?"
The old lady looked at Xiao Xiao.
She felt a little desperate and was trying every possible means to cure her illness.
When she met a young man who helped her a lot, she couldn't help but seek his advice.
Maybe……
The young man could help her one more time.
……
"should."
Xiao Xiao nodded.
Avoiding will not solve the problem.
"Two years..."
"You know that, too."
"Your actions have two consequences."
"One result is as you would expect. As the child grows older and his cognition expands, he gradually realizes that he has been living in his own imagination."
"I walked out on my own."
"Another result is..."
"He believed in the illusion he created."
"Because of long-term self-hypnosis..."
“There’s no way he can get out of this.”
“This result is too serious.”
Xiao Xiao thought that the two old people could not afford to gamble, and there was no need to gamble.
"You are worried that the child's situation will be known to people around you and spread widely..."
"It affects the child's normal life..."
"You can go to a hospital farther away."
"There's no need to throw the baby out with the bathwater."
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The two old men looked at each other.
really.
The young man also recommended that they take their child to see a psychologist.
They actually guessed it a little.
It's been two years...
Their hearts are becoming increasingly shaken...
The old lady once tried to tell this story to someone, of course using the universal beginning: I have a friend...
The responses she received were all asking her to persuade her friends to take their children to see a psychologist as soon as possible.
Don't harm the child.
The longer this problem is left unsolved, the more serious it will become.
When things become irreversible, there is no point in regretting.
……
How can a child’s reputation be as important as his health?
……
The old lady pursed her lips.
There was a fierce struggle between two little people in my mind. …
"it is good."
The old man spoke.
The old lady looked at the old man.
……
"Let's take him to a psychiatrist."
The old man made up his mind.
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The old lady opened her mouth, but hesitated to speak.
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The old man looked at the old lady and said, "Two years..."
"We gave him two years..."
"Are you going to endure this kind of life?"
Can you tolerate children who treat playing house as real life?
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The old lady was silent.
The first time she saw her child call out "Mommy and Daddy", her whole body froze.
The brighter the child smiled, the colder her limbs became.
What mom and dad?
The child's parents lost their lives in a car accident a month ago...
What is this kid talking about?
The old lady subconsciously turned her head and looked around.
There was no one else in the room except her, the old man, and the child.
……
The old lady hugged the child.
My eyes are burning.
Tears flowed.
She knew that the child had not yet been able to accept the fact that he had become an orphan without a father or a mother.
But don’t do this…
His parents are gone, but he still has his grandparents.
She and the old man will raise the child well.
……
The old lady and the old man both thought that the departure of their parents was too much of a shock to the child, and the child's brain activated its self-defense system and refused to accept this fact...
They pity the children.
Occasionally cooperate with the children and pretend that their parents are still with them.
But as time went on, they realized they couldn't go on like this...
They began trying to explain the situation to the child.
Lele’s parents have gone to heaven.
They will watch Lele from the sky.
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But the child refused to believe it.
Every time he opened his eyes and looked at them innocently, saying that his parents were right beside him...
Why do grandparents say that mom and dad have gone to heaven?
His parents were clearly by his side.
……
Looking at such children, they felt like they had goose bumps all over their bodies.
A few times, they even couldn't help but get angry.
Yelling at children.
He even said some very excessive words.
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But it's no use.
The child was crying and shaking all over.
It feels like a muscle spasm.
Ever since the car accident, except for the one time when he cried loudly in the hospital, the child's crying has been very...restrained.
It's so painful to see them.
They are reluctant.
Moreover, every time they lose their temper, the children become more dependent on their imaginary parents.
This is not good.
The two old men finally reacted.
They once again spoke earnestly to the child.
……
The results are obvious.
No use at all.
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Every time the two old people watched the child talking to himself like a monologue, they almost felt numb.
But of course they can't really be numb.
They did not give up their efforts.
Unfortunately.
After all, their abilities are limited.
Maybe it's time to seek help from a psychologist.
……
After a few seconds of stunned silence, the old lady slowly shook her head.
She certainly didn't want to endure such a life anymore.
She was just afraid...
After seeing a psychiatrist, things get worse…
Then she...will go crazy too.
……
Just maintain the status quo...
She thought she was used to it...
I am used to my child talking to himself...
The abnormality of the child that we are used to seeing is considered normal...
(End of this chapter)