Chapter 369 Children's Education Issues
Tian Yulan and Nan Li are both women who value family.
In order to prevent them from feeling ignored, Su Mingzhe always sets a detailed schedule on weekdays.
After work on weekdays, he would take half an hour to an hour to interact and play with his daughter and son.
The sisters Su Mengmeng and Su Tongtong, with the guidance of Su Mingzhe, have been proficient in music, chess, calligraphy and painting since childhood.
Although they are still very young, their IQs are higher than those of their peers.
Tian Yulan saw it and was happy in her heart.
After her two daughters went to kindergarten one after another, when she communicated with other children's parents every day, her two daughters earned her enough face.
People are never satisfied.
Tian Yulan is the same, he is greedy and never satisfied.
Su Mengmeng and Su Tongtong are obviously very outstanding. At least in Su Mingzhe's opinion, his two daughters are already the best among their peers.
However, Tian Yulan set her goals higher.
No one knew where she got the "Manual for Training Child Prodigies" from, but after her child had memorized three hundred thousand poems, she began forcing her two daughters to recite Tang and Song poems silently.
When Su Mingzhe found out about this, the two daughters had already been tortured by her for more than a week.
"Nonsense!"
"I am not kidding. This is the way a professor at Shuimu University teaches children. I learned this from him with great difficulty."
Instead of admitting her mistake, Tian Yulan argued vigorously.
Seeing that she still refused to admit her mistake, Su Mingzhe could not help but get angry:
"Are you out of your mind? Haven't you heard of 'There is no two suns in the sky, and no two masters on earth'? I already have a plan for educating my children. If you bring me another one, what are you going to let the children focus on? You are just kidding, what is this?"
Tian Yulan was still very afraid of men. Seeing that the man was really angry, she immediately said aggrievedly:
"I just thought that if my children learn more, they will have more hope of becoming successful in the future."
Su Mingzhe was so angry after hearing the woman's excuses:
"According to you, if my dad gets another copy of the child-rearing method taught by a professor at Fudan University, and Uncle Nan gets another copy of the child-rearing method taught by a professor at Jiaotong University, and your mom also finds one, and we teach together with four or five copies, wouldn't the child have a greater chance of success? Have you ever thought about whether the child can bear it?"
Su Mengmeng and Su Tongtong are only four or five years old. Under the guidance of Su Mingzhe, they have spent a lot of time and energy learning music, chess, calligraphy and painting.
Now, Tian Yulan has added more study tasks to her two daughters. Although they are still young, the two daughters have already started to have bags under their eyes and dark circles.
Su Mingzhe felt distressed when he saw this.
When watching the TV series "A Little Dilemma", Su Mingzhe felt quite sorry for Tian Yulan in the series.
Because of the misfortunes in her original family, Tian Yulan's character became particularly strong.
As a result, the rich second-generation man she married turned out to be another loser.
Obviously, her parents-in-law have a huge family business to inherit, but her husband spends all day hanging out with some "bad friends" and has no ambition to make progress.
As a result, Tian Yulan could only pin her hopes on her child.
Su Mingzhe thought that he had given Tian Yulan all kinds of halos, allowing her to gain a lot of face in front of other women, so she should calm down.
Unexpectedly, Tian Yulan had the "chicken baby gene" in her blood. I didn't pay attention for a moment and almost let her harm my two daughters.
"Don't worry about the education of our two daughters from now on."
In order to protect his daughter, Su Mingzhe spoke in a harsh tone, but he didn't care about that.
Compared with Tian Yulan, Nan Li is particularly relaxed in her children's education.
Su Mingzhe also gave his son all kinds of education, including music, chess, calligraphy and painting.
Compared with his two half-sisters, this son's learning of music, chess, calligraphy and painting can at best be considered to be "medium in everything".
But even so, Nan Li and Zhao Na loved this child very much. They never beat or scolded him since he was a child, and they never forced him to become a "child prodigy".
A blink of an eye.
By 2015, Su Mengmeng was in the third grade and Su Tongtong was in the first grade.
Tian Yulan brought up the old topic again, insisting on having another child with the man.
The country has also relaxed its policies in the past two years, and Tian Yulan used the fact that she would soon become an "elderly mother" to pressure the man.
Su Mingzhe had to work hard for a hundred days to help Tian Yulan get what she wanted.
Tian Yulan also spent a lot of time and effort on this pregnancy.
I tried all kinds of folk remedies and dietary therapies, and even asked someone to make me a Bianstone mattress.
Su Mingzhe felt that if Tian Yulan couldn't give birth to a son this time, she might go crazy.
This woman is so stubborn and crazy.
Fortunately, this time, Tian Yulan finally got what she wanted, otherwise, this woman would definitely continue to clamor for a fourth child.
Give birth in October.
In the summer of 2016.
Tian Yulan gave birth to Su Mingzhe's fourth child in this world.
Su Mengmeng looked at her wrinkled little brother and was shocked: "Dad, my little brother is so ugly."
"All children are like this. They will be fine in two days."
"Dad, can I hug my brother?"
"Not now, you're still young. You'll have to wait until you're taller and stronger before you can do it."
Su Mingzhe did not allow Su Mengmeng and Su Tongtong to hold their little brother. Although the two girls were not so naughty, the newborn baby was too fragile and they could not be treated with care. Tian Yulan also did not allow the two girls to get close to her baby son.
She still remembered that when Su Tongtong was just born, the little Su Mengmeng actually lay on her sister's face and started biting her.
Tian Yulan was almost scared to death at that time.
Children always do things without knowing the importance of the matter.
Tian Yulan was not at all reassured, so she asked her two daughters to help take care of her son.
Although Tian Yulan and Su Mingzhe did not allow the two daughters to get close to their brother, the two girls still ran to his bedside to check on him several times every day.
When the little guy's skin stretched out and became white and tender, the two daughters exclaimed in surprise.
"Dad, my brother has really become more handsome."
"You were like this when you were little. Look at your eyes, noses, mouths, and ears. You three siblings are very similar."
Su Mingzhe did not lie.
His genes were strong, and his four children all looked like him.
A few years later, when the youngest son grew up and stood next to his half-brother, others could guess that they were real brothers.
Fortunately, Su Mingzhe's genes are strong, otherwise if the two daughters inherited Tian Yulan's genes, there would probably be trouble.
Su Mingzhe has sharp eyebrows, bright eyes, fair skin and long legs.
Tian Yulan, on the other hand, has a big frame and broad back.
In order to maintain her perfect figure, Tian Yulan does half an hour of yoga and an hour of swimming every day without interruption.
If the two girls inherit their mother's genes, they will probably have the same troubles when they grow up.
Tian Yulan, who was standing next to them, saw that Su Mingzhe and the three children were having a great time, and couldn't help but join in the conversation:
"Honey, I heard from Mrs. Wang and Mrs. Li that their children have signed up for Olympiad classes during the summer vacation. Do you think we should let Mengmeng go for two days as well?"
Su Mingzhe did not agree to Tian Yulan's request directly, but asked his daughter:
"Mengmeng, do you want to attend the Mathematical Olympiad class?"
"Some of my classmates have started since the third grade."
Su Mengmeng didn't say whether she was willing or not, but the meaning of her words and the longing in her eyes clearly showed that she was very much looking forward to this kind of "tutoring class".
Of course, the reason why Su Mengmeng yearns for this is not because she wants to learn Olympiad mathematics, but because by joining the Olympiad mathematics class, she can play with her classmates for two more classes.
After all, the courses in the Olympiad classes for third and fourth grade elementary school students are relatively simple, and the teachers there mostly focus on tutoring students on homework.
"If you want to go, let your mother take you to sign up."
Su Mingzhe's understanding of these extracurricular tutoring classes, Olympiad classes, and interest classes for primary school students is roughly at the level of teachers taking children to study and play.
In the TV series "Little Willingness", the gold medal Olympiad teacher often insults and yells at children, which is definitely a minority among the minority.
You know, most children nowadays are the little darlings of every family.
Even the parents themselves are reluctant to beat or scold their children. If there really are teachers who treat students like the way they did in "A Little Dilemma", such tutoring institutions will be reported and closed down within half a year.
Of course, Su Mingzhe’s understanding may not be accurate.
After all, Su Mingzhe is one of the richest people in every world, and his children go to the most expensive bilingual aristocratic schools in the local area.
The basic fees for these bilingual schools for aristocrats alone are over 100,000 per semester.
This kind of bilingual aristocratic school will never have the situation in "A Little Dilemma" where the parents of students at Fengfan Primary School plot all kinds of conspiracies and calculations in order to choose a school for their children to enter junior high school.
If that happens, the reputation of these schools will be ruined.
However, even though there is no more trouble of 'primary school to junior high school', there are still various intrigues between students and their parents.
For example, the "Olympiad class" mentioned by Tian Yulan is actually a place where parents use their children to engage in intrigue.
One thing to say here: not all rich people are smart.
Some people may feel surprised and confused about this sentence.
Since these rich people are not smart, why are they still rich?
The reason for this is actually very simple.
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Many professors from famous universities and even well-known business tycoons are often deceived.
Many people treat such cases as stories and believe that they are all "fabricated" false rumors.
In fact, this kind of thing is very real.
Don't think that university professors are smart enough or business tycoons are experienced enough, and that these "successful people" will not be deceived.
In fact, the reason why these people can become "successful people" is mainly because they are strong enough in one aspect.
If a person has strengths, he or she will also have weaknesses.
A person's strengths determine the heights he can reach in his life, while his weaknesses determine the dimensions of the lows in his life.
If you understand the meaning of this sentence, you will understand why many "successful people" appear particularly stupid and silly in some aspects.
It is precisely because a person has shortcomings that he will be deceived.
Therefore, when Su Mingzhe educates his children, he does not ask them to excel in everything, but only hopes that they will not have any shortcomings so that they can be bullied by others.
(End of this chapter)